As a parent, you want custody to your child. Whether you are trying to get primary custody, joint custody, or sole custody, there are steps you can take to improve the chances you will get custody. The best way to do so is to work with an experienced family law attorney like Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell. We are standing by to set up a consultation during which we can learn more about your specific situation and offer targeted advice based on your needs.
Focus on the Best Interests of Your Child
When a custody battle is underway it is easy to lose sight of what is really important: The welfare of the children involved. Not only can it be harmful to your child to forget this, but all the courts are really looking for is how to place a child in the best possible situation for them. If there is evidence that one parent is taking overly aggressive or dishonest steps, it can be huge strike against them.
Know When to Fight for Sole Custody
At Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell we have worked with many clients who want sole custody of their child. While we understand this want, the reality is that the courts want to provide joint custody options for the sake of the child.
However, there are some situations in which it is wise to seek sole custody. This includes situations in which the other parent has been abusive toward you or your child, neglectful in their care of your child, has threatened to abduct your child, or is unfit to raise your child whether due to substance abuse or because they do not live in a safe environment.
If you believe that any of the above apply then you should contact a family law attorney right away to find out what your options are. We recommend documenting all misconduct and, if you must correspond with the other parent, doing so via text message or email so that there is a record.
In Most Cases the Focus Should Be on You – Not the Other Parent
Unless your case is one of the extreme situations described above, attacking the other parent is not a good strategy to get the custody you want. Instead of focusing on why the other parent is not the right choice, focus on why you are. Show the court your relationship with your child. Stay involved in their activities. Talk to your child openly and honestly so that you can understand their needs. The more you focus on why you are the right fit the better your case will be.
No matter where you are in the process, it is always worth it to contact Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell at 909-482-1422 to set up a consultation. With many years of experience, we know how to best build your case to get you the best possible outcome.
