4 Things to Do Before Telling Your Spouse You Want a Divorce

If you are considering asking your partner for a divorce there are a few things that you should do first.

    4 Things to Do Before Telling Your Spouse You Want a Divorce

  1. Be Sure That Divorce is What You Really Want
  2. The first thing you should do is think long and hard about if a divorce is really what you want. Every couple fights and experiences some points where they might think that the marriage isn’t working, but is a divorce truly what you want? If you’re not sure, consider counseling or couples counseling to work through your feelings either separately or as a couple. “I want a divorce” is four words that you can’t ever take back so be sure that it’s really what you want before broaching the topic with your spouse.

  3. Take a Glance at Your Finances
  4. It’s also important to take a glance at your finances and get some things in order before telling your spouse that you would like a divorce. You should print or make copies of all your financial statements, take pictures of the contents of your safety deposit box—if you have one, and take photos of all the valuables—even sentimental ones—that you have throughout the house. It’s always a good idea to have these records before you leave the house or your spouse cuts you off from that information.

  5. Decide Where You Want to Live
  6. Knowing where you will live is also important. Can you handle the mortgage payments or rent on your own? Do you want to stay in the marital home or apartment? How do you think your spouse will react to being asked to leave the marital home? Do you have somewhere else to go if necessary? These are all questions to ask yourself in case things get contentious quickly and you need somewhere to go.

  7. Meet with an Experienced Divorce Attorney
  8. Another important thing to do before approaching your spouse about divorce is to talk with a divorce attorney like Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, LLP. A family law attorney can help prepare you for the conversation and ensure that everything is in order should things turn ugly quickly.

Contact Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, LLP to discuss your divorce case!

If you are considering a divorce, it’s important to follow the tips above before informing your spouse of the decision. Divorces can quickly become contentious so it’s always a good idea to be prepared when heading into one. Reviewing your finances, avoiding any large purchases, and meeting with a divorce attorney like Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, LLP before telling your spouse you would like a divorce are all important steps to take. At Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, LLP, we will meet with you for a consultation to review your case and help you prepare for that discussion with your spouse. Contact us today at 909-482-1422 or info@parents4children.com to schedule a consultation.

To learn more about the reliable family law services that we offer, visit us online at Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, LLP.