Getting divorced is not something anyone plans on, yet it happens every day. In some ways, getting through the actual divorce is the easy part. After all, you have an experienced divorce attorney to walk you through the process. Once the divorce is final, you may find yourself with more time on your hands than you know what to do with.
If you’re just beginning to consider the divorce process then we recommend you call Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell at 909-482-1422 for your consultation. If you’re at the end of the process, please read on for three important things you can do to move on after the divorce is final.
- Establish a routine for yourself
- Start making the choices you want to make
- Get your shelves stocked
Having any type of routine helps keep you from getting too lonely or too lost after your divorce. Setting up specific routines that address your new life is even more helpful. For example, you’ll know be entirely responsible for the housework. If this is new to you, then you can create a routine to get certain cleaning chores done on specific days. This helps keep you tied to a routine while also ensure that you’re keeping your home clean.
Marriage requires compromise. Now that you’re without your spouse, you get to decide how your home is decorated, what time you eat dinner, what sheets you use, etc. It’s common for divorcees to stick with the décor they’ve had forever but you may be surprised by how freeing it can feel to add your own touches. After all, when you come home at night, what do you want to look at – the things you love or things that remind you of your ex?
If you’re not used to doing 100% of the household shopping then we recommend that you start by making a list of all the household goods that will eventually need to be replaced. For example, it may include laundry detergent, tissues, toilet paper, paper towels, etc. Think as well of staple foods. Then, when it’s time to go to the store, go over your list to make sure you have enough to hold you over. The last thing you want is to go to cook dinner and find that you’re out of half of what you need.
These practical tips can help your divorce go more smoothly
The truth is that there’s no way to make divorce have no impact on you. It’s an emotional experience that can be expensive and a hassle. The good news is that you do have Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell here to help you through it. Whether your divorce involves just you and your spouse, or you have custody and alimony issues to deal with, we’re here for you.
With years of experience in the field of family law, we’ve seen it all before. We know how to get you ready for your new life and how to ensure that your best interests are at the forefront. Call us at 909-482-1422 to set up a consultation.
