How to Work Through Disagreements about Divorce Terms

How to Work Through Disagreements about Divorce TermsAt Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, we know that trying to reach an agreement on divorce terms can be challenging. We’ve helped couples work through terms for 30 years, and we’ve probably seen it all. If you’re struggling to come to an agreement with your spouse about the terms of your divorce, come in for a consultation with our dependable, compassionate attorneys. We specialize in divorce cases where child custody and support are important issues concerning both parents, so you can rest assured that we will give your case the focused attention it deserves.

Our Attorneys Go the Extra Mile

When you work with sister-brother duo attorneys Kristina Kendall-Gkikas and Thomas Kendall, you’re in good hands. They’ve dedicated their careers to helping families through difficult times, such as divorces and custody issues, so each family member can go on to live peacefully. Not only will you receive expert, detailed legal advice and representation, you’ll have an advocate who will work incredibly hard to achieve the best, most ideal outcome for you and each one of your family members. No matter what your situation, divorce can be a terribly trying time, but with excellent legal counsel, you can get through it with minimal stress by working with Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell.

Focus on the Children

Our law firm is all about serving children’s best interests. Yes, we definitely want to help the parents during their divorce, but our focus is securing the best possible outcome for the sake of the children. If you have divorce term disagreements, try to take your negative personal feelings out of the equation and view the situation from your children’s standpoint. This will give you a healthy dose of perspective and help you see what really matters in a given situation. Perhaps encourage your spouse to do the same, and indicate that you’d like to work things out peacefully for their sake. Likely your spouse will be on board with this plan because he or she also deeply cares for the children, just like you do.

Be Stubborn in a Good Way

No matter how much you disagree with your partner and how much you feel your position is right, it’s so important that you eventually come to an agreement with your spouse on divorce terms. Even if it feels like you’re not making progress during mediation sessions, couples’ therapy, and other counseling appointments, keep going. Be determined to work things out, or you’ll end up leaving your divorce terms up to a judge who doesn’t even know you well. At Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, we mediate between parties to work out disputes, but even the best divorce attorneys can’t force couples to agree on divorce terms. You have to be willing to compromise and a desire to work things out so you can eventually move forward with your life.

Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, LLP, for All Your Divorce Needs

Whatever stage you’re at—whether you’re just thinking about possibly getting a divorce, are already in agreement with your spouse on divorce terms, are finding it impossible to agree with him or her, are worried about having to go to court—come to Kendall & Gkikas. We’ll give you superb legal advice, counsel, and representation through every stage of the divorce process. Call 909-482-1422, email info@parents4children.com, or click “Contact” to send us a message about your situation.