No matter how long you may have wanted a divorce, when it comes time to go through with it, it’s normal to have a mix of emotions. In many situations, those emotions include anger and they may encourage someone to act in a way they normally wouldn’t. The most important thing to remember is that no matter how you feel about the situation, you don’t have to act on those feeling.
At Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, we understand how trying this time is. We also know that it will pass and that you will be much happier if it passes without you doing anything you’ll be embarrassed by. Reach out to us at 909-482-1422 today to get an attorney on your side and read on to learn how to ensure that your reputation doesn’t take a hit during your divorce proceedings.
Strategies to help you protect your reputation
The bottom line is that you don’t want to say or do anything that is going to affect your ability to get the child custody you deserve or other agreements on your side. To begin with, be careful about what you say about the divorce. For example, don’t go to your child’s teacher, or your hairdresser, or even your co-workers and tell them all about your divorce. People love gossip and if you tell one person, you should assume that a dozen will know within the week.
A lot of people have gone through a divorce and they’re likely to give you details when they find out you’re getting divorced. You may be tempted to respond with details about your divorce. Don’t. if they ask you how it’s going, have something simple on hand to say. A good option is, “It’s been difficult but we’re making progress.”
Be careful what you’re doing with social media
Just about everyone has some type of social media account. Remember that Facebook and other social media posts can be used against you in the divorce. Don’t post pictures of you drinking, wearing anything you wouldn’t want your grandmother to see, spending money, going on a date, or anything else that could potentially be used against you in a divorce case. Even if you think your posts are private, you may be surprised by how they can get out into the world.
In fact, we recommend that you don’t mention the divorce at all on any social media accounts. Something completely innocent can easily be taken out of context and used against you. Remember that once this is over, you can set the record straight if you really think you need to. However, while you’re working on the divorce, stay quiet if you want the best possible outcome.
Reach out to a divorce attorney today
Of course, the best way to move forward in a positive way is to have a divorce attorney on your side who will fight for your rights. At Kendall Gkikas & Mitchell, you are our priority. We want to ensure that we take care of you and get you what you are entitled to. Call us today at 909-482-1422 to set up a consultation.
